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Counts are Down so Battle On! 10/14/2013

Let’s face it, there is nothing like a 9 hour day at the hospital to make you feel more like it’s good to be home.  After leaving the house around 7:30am for what was supposed to be routine lab work and not to return until after 6:00pm, you know you are on hospital time.  We arrived and had Travis’ blood drawn and then it is typically about an hour before the lab results are back.  They determined that his ANC (absolute neutrophil count or first responders to infection) is 0 so we need to be very careful about infections.  Travis’ ANC has been low before but never zero.  It would have been nice to know that before we were shaking hands with everyone at church yesterday.  Also his platelets are low so we need to be careful that he doesn’t get bruised easily or any kind of nick or cut since the clotting will not be as effective.   Then to top it off, his hemoglobin was right on the border of needing a blood transfusion.  They decided to go ahead with the transfusion so we didn’t have to come back tomorrow and ordered up some blood.  We sort of anticipated this so we brought lunch and plenty of things to do while we waited.

The nurses came in to access Travis’ port but the problem was the one doing the accessing was training to work in the oncology clinic.  In other words, she did not have much experience and it really hurt a lot.  It was enough to make him cry which he never does when being accessed.  Poor little guy!  By this time, it was close to noon so Tony decided to come down at lunch and spend an hour and a half with us.  They didn’t start the blood until 1:30pm and it takes three and a half hours to do the transfusion so we did not leave until 5:30pm.  At least we had some crafts to do, the Kindle to play on and some TV to watch.  Who would of thought flipping houses could be so interesting but the before and after is so cool?

Where does the day go when you are on hospital time?  You just have to battle on!

Thanks,

Lynne and Tony

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If Shoes Could Talk, the Stories They’d Tell! 10/11/2013

Some of you may be aware that Lynne has been working on a special project for Bethlehem Preschool over these last couple of months.  When we found out back in June that she would not be available to teach in the fall in order to take care of Travis during his chemo treatments, she discussed working on some projects that would benefit the school and help keep her connected.   She partnered with the organization Shoes with Heart whose mission is to provide shoes to impoverished nations.  They have found that it is more cost effective to clean and refurbish used shoes than it is to buy them new.  So, they went to work on a Shoe Drive and set a goal of collecting 2000 pounds of shoes.  The problem was that it was too close to the end of the school year to begin the drive and be able to reach their goal, so Lynne came up with a Flyer asking parents to save their shoes over the summer and bring them to donate when school started again in September.  She also sent it out to our friends, neighbors and anyone else who may have a few pair of shoes to donate.

Over the course of the summer, Lynne quickly realized that the bags of shoes would eventually outgrow the space we have in the garage and she called Encinitas Self Storage to see about the short term use of a storage space.  They graciously offered to donate a storage space in support of the shoe drive and we never missed an opportunity to mention their generosity.  Lynne also contacted the Community Resource Center, Platypus Kids, La Costa Kids, Spin Again and Rancho Coastal Humane Society Thrift Shop about donating any shoes they were unable to sell.  There were also donations by Bethlehem Preschool parents, Carlsbad by the Sea residents, Carlsbad Wave soccer, City of Hope 2 Day walkers, St. Andrews Rummage Sale, Faith and Works group, friends and neighbors.

After personally handling ~2000+ pairs of shoes, loading them into 86 plastic bags and reaching their goal of over 2000 pounds (see, 1 pair of shoes ~= 1 pound and each bag weighed ~25 pounds), it was great to have the truck come and load them up.  Thanks Cheyanne, Jonathon and Travis for your help on loading day!  This is what Lynne shared along with some of her “Lessons Learned:”

Hello Everyone,

I would first like to thank each of you for taking the time to participate in the Shoe Drive.  Involving your family, relatives, friends, neighbors, and social groups, etc. to participate in our fundraiser brings us together in this great community.  It is something that I love being a part of.

At first, the shoe drive sounded easy.  But then I realized what I had gotten myself into.  Donations didn’t come in as fast as I anticipated.  By the half way mark (September 19), well I started to panic.  We only had about 450 pounds.  A week later (September 24), we had broken the 1,000 pound mark.  There was light at the end of the tunnel.  By September 30, we had 1,725 pounds but we were not done.  On October 2, we made our goal and had collected 2,025 pounds.  Now I could breathe again, but that wasn’t the end.  On October 6, Tyler and I took the last five bags over to the storage unit, which rounded us out to 2,150 pounds of shoes.  Unbelievable!  Shoes with Heart is scheduled to pick up the shoes on Thursday, October 10, sometime in the afternoon.  Yay!

Here are a few things that I have learned from doing a Shoe Drive.

1.     All shoes stink, even the little ones.

2.    There is a vague understanding of the phrase “All Shoes Must Come In Pairs”.  There were 48 shoes donated from various sources that had no matches.

3.    Shoe Drive should mean shoes, right? There were other items donated besides shoes, (i.e. makeup, pair of shorts, three hats, one broken purse, a tie, and a sequined belt.)

4.    I can say with certainty that I have touched (with gloves) every shoe that was donated.  Please don’t spread that around.

5.    There were more than 2,000 rubber bands used for this project.

6.    Every plastic bag, paper bag and box used was recycled.

7.    Doing a project like this with you all is a “Priceless Experience”.

Love,

Lynne

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Round 4 is Out the Door…Only 2 More! 10/8/2013

Travis came home last night and we all slept great in our own beds!  With Round 4 out the door and only 2 more, we are now officially 2/3 of the way done with chemo.  Yeah!

Soccer Practice

Soccer Practice

As we mentioned, on Thursday evening, Travis went to soccer practice and stayed the whole time with the team.  He just loves being with his friends and wanted to get the most out of it since chemo was starting the next day.  Friday began with our normal check-in and we immediately started decorating our room for Halloween.  We know it is a bit early but if Costco can have their Christmas decorations for sale already, what are a few weeks early for Halloween since at least we are in October now, right?

Room Decorations

Room Decorations

We have been battling a little issue with Travis’ port area on the incision where it was installed for a couple of months or so.  It kind of looks like a slight infection and they gave us antibiotics for it but all of the cultures keep coming back negative.  The vascular surgeon came in on Friday to take a look and made a slight adjustment on how they access his port since that is about an inch below the affected area at the incision.  Things seemed to look better when we left so we are keeping our fingers crossed that everything heals up.

Travis worked on his school work over the weekend and he is so good about wanting to stay caught up.  With a soccer game on Saturday and the Wave Fall Festival on Sunday, it kept us coming and going.  But we did manage to squeeze in some Movie and TV time that we normally don’t have time for at home.  We were able to watch Iron Man 3 and Epic movies.  Then we supplemented with TV by watching some of American Pickers, Pawn Stars and Duck Dynasty.  It is always a fun way to pass the time!

To tell you the truth, Rounds 3 and 4 have been so different from Rounds 1 and 2.  Maybe with the chemo dose reductions combined with the new anti-nausea medicine (palanosatron), Travis has not experienced any nausea or the sick feelings from before.  In fact, he was eating something at every meal, getting up out of bed for most of the day, making it outside for a picnic or to get some fresh air and having some visitors stop by.  That is totally opposite from Rounds 1 and 2 where it was all we could do just to maintain.  We are praying the trend continues into the final stretch.

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Halloween Project

Martine and Olivia stopped by on Sunday and it was nice to have them visit.  Thank you all so much for the Haunted House craft!  Travis and Tyler had a great time working on the project and all of the doctors and nurses were very impressed with the level of detail, not to mention how it complemented the Halloween decorations in the room.

Project Complete!

Project Complete!

Over the weekend, we met a 7 year old little boy who is battling bone cancer in his leg around the thigh area.  He is being cared for by his grandparents who have legal custody and they are like angels who swooped in to take care of him.  He was in the hospital for his third round of chemo.  He is pretty shy and does not speak much to people he just meets, maybe due to dealing with his situation and losing his hair to chemo.  But he would whisper in his grandmother’s ear and we heard later that he told her that he really liked meeting Travis and he had fun when they stopped by to visit.  It seems like the boys were really able to relate with their situations.  We heard on Monday that since his cancer is inoperable and they can only use chemo and possibly radiation to treat him, one of the treatment options they are considering is to remove his leg.  Wow, it is hard to imagine!  It really puts things into perspective and makes you grateful for any small victories you have along this hard journey.  We will keep him and his family in our prayers and we hope for the best for him!

When we arrived home yesterday, we had a great meal delivered by the Garman family which couldn’t have come at a better time.  Thanks so much you guys!  Sorry you were not able to visit over the weekend but hopefully Reed and Collyn are feeling better soon.

Well, as we said, Round 4 is Out the Door…Only 2 More!

Thanks,

Tony and Lynne

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No Go for the Miramar Airshow! 10/3/2013

Well, the government shutdown has affected us here in San Diego too and the Miramar Airshow was cancelled including the pre-show that we were invited to see today.  What a bummer!  The funny thing is that despite the fact that the airshow actually makes millions of dollars for the military every year, it was decided by the Pentagon this morning that it should be cancelled anyway.  Sounds fishy but I guess they want us all to have to share in the shutdown pain.  It’s too bad since the Make-A-Wish Foundation had gone to so much trouble to invite the families and coordinate an up close and personal experience at the pre-show and had a great afternoon planned.  We were going to have a catered lunch and then watch the dress rehearsal practice flights.  They were even going to have one of the new F-35 fighter jets from Yuma, AZ, showing off all of its capabilities with vertical takeoff and landing and hovering.  We were going to be able to see all the military hardware without all the long lines that occur on the weekends.  Then to top it off, they had set up a meet and greet with the pilots.  There is always next year, right?

The good thing is that after Travis’ pre-check in appointment (counts are still good), he was able to go back to school for one last day with his friends.  He even made it out to soccer practice to spend some quality time with the team before being out of commission for a week or two.  The boys always like it when he is there and he seems to motivate them a little more.  Overall a good day!

Thanks,

Tony and Lynne

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October and Counts Are Good! 10/2/2013

It’s October already…really?  Travis had his counts checked on Monday at 7:15am so that he could go to school this week and we are all good.  Yeah!  We are not sure why they dipped last Thursday but keep hearing that can happen with chemo.  We really wanted Travis to be able to spend this week with his friends in school since he will be out for the next two weeks in post chemo “quarantine.”

By time we are out of the chemo “quarantine,” the ECC two week Fall Break starts which means that today is Travis’ last day of school for the month of October.  Mrs. Mills will keep us in the loop and she will have plenty of work for Travis to stay busy but she doesn’t want him to be stressed.  It is like he has a second mother watching over him at school.  She is so good!

Tomorrow will be like déjà vu with our Round 4 pre-check in appointment again in the morning.  It was nice to have the extra week for Travis to get a little stronger and we were trying to fatten him up some.  Doughnuts, cookies, chips, whatever he wanted!  We are hoping that his counts stay stable so we can get things going this weekend.  In the afternoon, we have been invited to come down and do an advanced viewing of the Miramar Airshow.  We try to go to the show whenever we can but we have missed the past couple of years.  So the boys are really looking forward to seeing all of the aircraft and military hardware on display up close and personal.  It always brings back fun memories of our days when Tony was in the Army.  We will do an update after the show and let you know how that goes.

Thanks to every one of you who are following us on the new Travis the Warrior site!  We have been talking about it for a long time and we still have a lot to do but it has been a good to get it up and going.  Travis loves reading all of the messages from everyone and we really appreciate your words of encouragement!

Thanks,

Lynne and Tony

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Travis The Warrior Website is Online! 9/29/2013

Care Calendar has been a great resource for us both in terms of support with meals and also for posting our updates so people can follow our journey.  But, we have had the idea of setting up a website for many months so that the forum can be more customized and interactive.  Well, we finally had the time to make that happen and are ready to switch over.  Even though we still have some details to polish up, the main structure is in place so we will start updating the website from this point forward.  All posts from Care Calendar have been moved over and some new features added.  Please check out the new site and make sure to enter your information to “Follow” the updates by email.  As Updates are posted in our Journal, you can receive an email notification.  Also, don’t forget to sign our Guestbook and leave a personal message for Travis.  You will also be able to Comment on each individual post.  Here is the link:

www.travisthewarrior.com

We hope you like the new look!

Thanks,

Tony and Lynne

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Together4Hope Walk! 9/27/2013

In honor of Travis, friends of ours are participating in the Together4Hope Walk which benefits City of Hope whose goal is to CURE CANCER.  Both Cheyanne and Kathy will be doing the 2 Day 40 mile walk while Shannon and her family (Jonathon, Spenser, Reed and Collyn) will be doing the 5K walk.  Tyler is going to walk with Shannon and the crew on Saturday so it should be a fun event.  Everyone will be sporting their lime-green Travis the Warrior t-shirts (thanks to Aunt Karen) and Travis the Warrior buttons (thanks to Kathy) so they should be easily visible if you are in the area to root them on. ;o)  Thank you all for supporting Travis in such a special way…Go Team Travis!

Date:

Saturday, September 28th

Check-In Time:

8:00 am – Please locate the Pre-registration tent to check-in and pick up your bib. The bib has a tear away ticket that can be redeemed for one event tee shirt.

Vendor Area:

Open 8:00 am – 12:00 pm

Opening Ceremony:

8:20 am- Help us send off our inspirational 2 day 40 mile walkers. Stretch it out and warm up with Pacific Cancer Fitness.

Start Location:         

De Anza Cove

3000 North Mission Bay Drive

San Diego, CA 92109

 

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Round 4 of Chemo is Delayed! 9/26/2013

We had a fun weekend of soccer and we were preparing this week to start Round 4 of chemo on Friday.  But, at the pre-check-in appointment, it turned out that Travis’ counts were too low to start chemo so we have to delay everything by a week.  It is kind of a bummer since once you get into that mindset, you just want to get it going and done.  His hemoglobin and platelets are both ok but his white blood cell count and ANC (absolute neutrophil count or first responders) were too low so we need to wait until the ANC is back up above 1000.  By pushing Round 4 out, it will have a chain reaction on Rounds 5 and 6 too so things will not be wrapping up until after Thanksgiving now.  As much as we are looking forward to getting this whole process over, we realize we have to do what’s best for Travis right now.  Looking ahead, at least he will be able to enjoy his fall break from school at the end of October and the last round will not start until after Thanksgiving so hopefully he will be stuffed with turkey and all the fixings while he is feeling good.

On the brighter side, the results of the quarterly MRI came back fine (Thank God!) and Dr. Crawford says that Travis is within the top 6% of his patients in terms of how well he is doing.  Yeah!  We continue to count our blessings since as bad as things are for us, they could have been a whole lot worse!  He also confirmed that he is going to lower the strongest chemo (Cisplatin) dose down to 50% for Round 4 due to some high frequency hearing loss that the chemo can cause.  This will be down from the 75% dose that he received during Round 3 and could be phased out completely so we are hoping each round continues to go well.  In his exam, Travis is also starting to exhibit some temporary nerve interference from the Vincristine which causes kind of a numbness in his feet.  So again, we will most likely be looking at a dose reduction of Vincristine in future rounds.

What we keep hearing through this whole process, whether it is surgery, radiation or chemotherapy, is that every patient is different and they start out with a cookbook type of treatment plan for his type of cancer which gets modified accordingly along the way depending on how the treatment is tolerated.  In other words, with the toxic nature of the treatment with radiation and chemotherapy, they take you right up to the hairy edge of your tolerance before they back off.  Whew!  For those of us planners out there, it can make your head spin but we have learned that we have to take things as they come and face them head on.  Travis is a Warrior and he will battle through!

Thanks,

Tony and Lynne

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Travis the Warrior 5K! 9/20/2013

Thanks to our cousin, Jeannette, and the rest of the Wagner family (Bill, Sierra, Paige, and Ashley), for your support of Travis and our family.  In addition to having a card writing campaign to Travis with a lot her close friends (Travis loves getting and reading all of the cards by the way), Jeannette and her family have decided to host a “Travis the Warrior 5K” Walk/Run event in his honor.  You all are so Amazing!!!  The festivities will be held in Washington, Iowa on Saturday, October 26, 2013 starting at 8am if you happen to be in the area.  They have created T-shirts that say: “We are the Army for Travis the Warrior.”  So cool!  We wish we could be there but Travis will be doing his 5th round of chemo that weekend so we will have to be there with you all in spirit and maybe by a video clip.  Here is the link to their Facebook page for the event.

https://www.facebook.com/events/420430161400050/

We can’t seem to say this enough but we have been so blessed by the outpouring of support from family, friends and even people we did not know before.  Thank you all so very much!

Love,

Tony, Lynne, Tyler and Travis

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Busy, Busy, Busy! 9/19/2013

It has been a couple of weeks since our last update but we have been trying to pack as much in as possible while Travis is feeling good (relatively speaking).  As we mentioned in the last update, Travis did so well through the last chemo round and we were able to go home early without IV fluids.  Yeah!

Travis continues to work diligently on his school work both in and out of the hospital.  His teacher, Mrs. Mills, has been phenomenal.  She prepares weekly packets for him to work on, creates videos of the class talking to Travis and is readily available for any questions he has.  She is constantly looking after him while he is in school and we feel like he is in excellent hands again this year.

Just to give you an idea of how our last couple of weeks have gone, here is a sort of play-by-play:

Friday, 9/6: We were back down at Rady Children’s Hospital to have lab work done and everything was ok so we were free for the weekend.

Saturday, 9/7:  Our Faith & Works event this month was “Adopt a Trail” down at Mission Trails Park starting at 8am.  It was a hot morning so we decided that it would be best is Travis and Lynne stayed home this time so that we don’t run into any problems.  So, Tony and Tyler went down and helped our group clear some trails in the park.  By 10am, the temperature was about 90 and we hiked back down the mountain and wrapped things up by 10:30am.  Nothing like some good hard work to start the day and it is always great to join together to get things accomplished with our F&W family!

Saturday, 9/7-Sunday, 9/8: Now that our summer is over and the tournaments have wrapped up, we had our opening weekend of our regular season Soccer Games and Travis was able to attend.  The team really likes it when Travis comes out and he also likes being around the guys so it is a win-win situation.

Monday, 9/9: We had lab work done and Travis’ counts were low so we need to lay low for the rest of the week.

Tuesday, 9/10:  We went back down to Rady Children’s Hospital for a blood Transfusion since his Red Blood Cells were low.  Since the Red Blood Cells carry oxygen throughout your body, when those counts get low, you can start experiencing symptoms similar to Altitude Sickness (i.e. lethargy, headaches, etc).  So, each time after the blood transfusion (this was the second time), Travis has a little bit of new life pumped back into him and his energy level picks back up.

Friday, 9/13: We were at Rady Children’s Hospital for Travis to have his Quarterly MRI done.  He has to have his port accessed first so that they can administer contrast as part of the MRI.  They do the full Cranial-Spinal areas which takes about 45 minutes.  Then they apply the contrast and do both again for another 45 minutes.  What a trooper to lay there through 1.5 hours of MRI!  Travis calls the MRI his torture with all the noise and vibrations.  But the one thing that makes it almost bearable, thanks to the donation of a kind individual, is that they have a pair of goggles that he can wear with earphones to he can watch a movie during the MRI.  Amazing technology!  While we are there, they also checked his lab work and his Counts are good so we are off of quarantine!

Saturday, 9/14-Sunday, 9/15: It was another hot weekend in San Diego county again but Travis was able to make it out to both Soccer Games again.  Even if he can’t play right now, he just loves being around the team and watching.  He is such an inspiration!

Sunday, 9/15: It may be the Marinol talking but when Travis has a craving for food, we just go with it.  Anything to help him keep the pounds on!  Prior to chemo starting back in July, his weight had climbed back up to 62 pounds but he lost about 5 pounds during the first chemo round and then another 4 pounds after round 2.  He has been holding steady at about 53 pounds since round 2 back in early August.  He decided he wanted to celebrate our “Halfway through Chemotherapy” milestone at Claim Jumpers for dinner.  He had mini-corndogs, fries and apples dipped in caramel sauce.  Yum!  When he asked for the dessert menu, we said by all means, sure.  His first choice was carrot cake but they were all out so he settled for an Eclair.  When we told the waiter what we were celebrating, he brought out dessert with candles on it which was really cool.  The Éclair was on a dinner size plate and looked like a football covered in whipped cream.  Delicious!  When the waiter brought the check, he said that the manager had thrown in the dessert for free to help Travis celebrate.  That was totally awesome and we went by to thank her on the way out.

Monday, 9/16: After being out for 2 weeks, it was back to school for Travis and Lynne was asked to fill in at Preschool.  For a moment there, it almost seemed like old times!  Well, at least we know what things will be like after chemo is done.  Mrs. Mills was great about helping Travis get situated and back in the swing of things after being out.

Tuesday, 9/17: Travis was able to make it out to soccer practice for a little while.  He has fun being around the guys and it pushes him to do just a little bit more.  Good physical therapy even if it is brief.  He said that his legs were really tired after since he just doesn’t have all of his strength now.

Wednesday, 9/18: We had “Back to School” night with Tyler at Oak Crest Middle School.  It is hard to believe he is in the 8th grade now.  Since he is in the Leadership class, they were asked to help out during the event and direct parents to the various classrooms.  Tyler is one of the technical guys in the group so he helped out with sound system and music.  It was great to be able to go through an abbreviated version of his schedule and meet all of his teachers.  He is taking several honors courses and we are glad to see him push himself.

We don’t know about you but we are tired just looking back and writing all of this stuff!

Thanks,

Tony and Lynne