Happy Birthday Tyler! You are a big help and we are very proud of you! Keep up the great work and always reach for the stars.
Love,
Daddy, Mommy and Travis
Happy Birthday Tyler! You are a big help and we are very proud of you! Keep up the great work and always reach for the stars.
Love,
Daddy, Mommy and Travis
Travis had a great second week of school and it is amazing to see him working so diligently on his school work so that he does not have to worry about falling behind while he is out. Mrs. Mills is great about preparing weekly assignments for the kids so Travis knows what he has to work on. We even made it to the ECC Back to School night on Wednesday. There are so many good kids in the class and we know most of their families already.
Tyler finished his first week back at school as a big 8th grader. He is becoming so mature but it is still hard to believe that he is one year away from High School. Wow! He is taking some advanced classes again this year with High School Geometry and Honors English. He is also taking Leadership again which combines ASB (Associated Student Body) and Broadcasting so it allows him to do some pretty cool stuff while he is involved in most of the school events.
We had a little bit of a scare when checking in on Thursday for Round 3 of Chemotherapy to start on Friday. Before we meet with the Doctor, they run routine lab work (CBC and Electrolytes) so they know where we are starting from. But apparently Travis’ blood counts had dropped quite a bit since he was released from quarantine the last time and they were very close to not being able to start the third round of chemo. His ANC or Absolute Neutrophil Count (first responders of the infection fighters) was at 1008 and they will only do chemo if it 1000 or higher so we dodged a potential delay. We know Travis would not have minded the delay but we keep telling him that every day and every treatment gets us one step closer to being done.
So on Friday, Lynne and Travis checked in to the hospital around 9am and were admitted to our room for the next several days. You may think that being in the hospital over the weekend, let alone a holiday weekend, is a bummer but it actually works out well for us. Things tend to slow down around there with the number of patients, traffic, etc. and it allows us to come and go without having to worry about missing work or school so that we can support Travis the best we can. Besides, there was a heat wave in San Diego County over the Labor Day weekend so we appreciated the comforts of air conditioning at the hospital.
Things got off to a little bit of a slower start and we did not begin the chemo infusion until around 4pm. They have to make sure Travis is fully hydrated before they start as it is very important to continuously flush the body’s system throughout the process. After our experience last round, they decided to change up the anti-nausea efforts and prescribed a steroid along with a new medication called Palonosetron. It seems that with those two combined with the Marinol and the Cisplatin reduction down to 75% of the original dose for this round, Travis did amazingly well. He had no real nausea symptoms, was eating something at each meal and was walking around and outside multiple times through the weekend. Amazing!
The original plan was that they were going to keep him in the hospital until Tuesday to make sure he was fully hydrated before he went home. Then they scheduled 2 days of home health care so that they could run fluids overnight on Tuesday and Wednesday. But when the doctor came in on Monday to check on him and with all of his Blood Counts and Eltrolytes looking good, they let us go home on Monday afternoon. They even de-accessed his port which meant we did not need the home health care to come. Once they saw how good Travis was doing, it was Time to Flee After Round 3.
It was a great feeling for Travis to get home and see Cisco and sleep in his own bed. Same for the rest of us too!
Thanks,
Tony and Lynne
First Week of School in the Books…Travis finished the first week of school with his friends and teacher, Mrs. Mills, as a big 5th Grader. Even though he had to miss the first day of school, he jumped right in there and got to work on Monday night. Mrs. Mills is so great and Travis knows if he needs anything, all he has to do is ask her. It is a big relief for us knowing that she and the school are willing to work with us no matter how Travis is feeling. Whether he is in class or has to work from home or the hospital, we will make things work!
And They’re Off…Each year during the horse racing season in August and September at the Del Mar Racetrack, we try to go down to Daybreak at Del Mar at least once or twice. But, with the chemo schedule, we had not been able to go yet this year until Saturday morning. Daybreak at Del Mar is where they serve breakfast in the grand stands right at the finish line of the track while the jockeys and trainers are warming up the horses in the morning prior to the afternoon races. It is a great way to get up close and personal with the horses and they even have a former jockey doing a commentary about the horses, jockeys, trainers, owners and the history of the track. It is amazing to see all the different horses and how effortlessly they gallop around the track. They are so powerful yet graceful and majestic and it is one of those really cool things to do in San Diego!
Take Me Out to the Ball Game…Since we were not able to go to the company picnic last weekend down at Petco Park, Tony’s work and the Padres arranged for us to go to the game on Saturday night against the Cubs. That was very generous of them to think of us and we had a blast. Even though the Padres came up short, 3-2, it was a very close game that came down to the final out. We were sure another run or two was coming at any time especially during the 7th inning where the Padres left the bases loaded. Oh well, that is baseball. The best part was Travis having so much fun that he insisted that we stay until the very end. It must have been the stadium food combined with the marinol but Travis was an eating machine. He had half a stadium hotdog, popcorn and snacks and was then asking for cracker jacks before we left. Thanks Trish and John (Padres) for great seats and a great family evening!
It’s a Fiesta…We finished off the weekend with a little “Fiesta” on Sunday evening with our friends: the Garmans (Shannon, Jonathon, Spenser, Reed and Collyn) and the Blackburns (Cheyanne, Jake and Quinn). It was really fun to have a little themed get-together while Travis was feeling good. The Mexican food and company were great!
We are preparing for Round 3 at the end of the week.
Thanks,
Tony and Lynne
With Travis’ counts still low as of last Thursday, he was pretty disappointed that he was not be able to go to our soccer team’s beach get-together on Friday evening nor was he able to go to the games of our tournament over the weekend. The boys missed having him there too and Christian’s mom, Juli, arranged for all of the boys to wear grey wrist bands to show their support for Travis’ battle with brain cancer. By the way, grey is the color for brain cancer since it represents the grey matter. Get it? It was totally awesome and Travis wore his the whole weekend! Tyler even shot video of the games for Travis to see.
This was also the weekend where Tony’s company does their family picnic each year. For the second year in a row, they were holding the picnic at Petco Park, home of the San Diego Padres, and reserved the top of the Western Metal Supply Building which overlooks the third base line from up high. They serve hamburgers, hotdogs, nachos, peanuts and all kinds of food and drinks. We had a blast last year and we are really sorry we had to miss such a fun event and exciting game against the Mets (Go Padres!). But we just didn’t want to take the risk with Travis not feeling the best this past week. They even had a message play on the giant scoreboard in support of Travis. Wow! The person who organizes the event each year, Trish, told the Padres about Travis and they invited us to come to a game when Travis is feeling up to it. That is so generous to offer our family a chance to go to a game! We are very excited to try and go on Saturday before the third round of chemo starts to see the Padres play the Cubs. Thanks so much Trish for your support and thinking of Travis! Go Padres!
The major goal over the weekend was to have Travis ready to start school on Monday with all of the kids. So, Travis and Lynne went down to Rady’s at 7am Monday morning to get the blood work done and the good news is that the counts are back up so he is out of “quarantine.” But, as luck would have it, Travis was not up to spending the day at school since he has been feeling pretty weak over this last weekend. So, they ended up going over to school at the end of the day so that Travis could say hi to his friends and teacher which was a big first step. Mrs. Mills is such a great teacher, as we know from when Tyler had her 3 years ago, and she had a packet for Travis to start working on. No slack!
Travis was feeling pretty good off and on throughout the afternoon and evening on Monday so we are planning for him to go to school on Tuesday. Lynne dropped Travis off and got him set up in the classroom so we are proud of him powering through to begin his new year as a big 5th grader. Lynne will stop by to have lunch with Travis and see how he is doing. We are keeping our fingers crossed!
Thanks so much to the Sando family for the great Movie and Ice Cream care package! We know everything will get put to good use.
Thanks to everyone for all of your continued prayers and words of encouragement! Round two is through.
Tony and Lynne
We had Travis’ blood work checked today and his ANC (white blood cells) and Platelets (blood clotting) were still low which means another weekend in quarantine. He was pretty bummed since he wanted to go to soccer practice to see the boys and was really looking forward to going to our soccer tournament this weekend. The other bad part is that he is supposed to start school on Monday and it does not look like he will be able to. We are going to have his blood work done again on Monday morning at 7:30am so if all looks like it is improving, he could go in a little late. Otherwise, we will go when we can. With his white blood cells (infection fighters) down, we do not want to put him at risk of getting sick. The good news was that the blood transfusion last weekend helped and his Hemoglobin is back up.
Lynne has a meeting with his teacher on Friday so that we can go over our current situation. She is very excited to have Travis in her class and is very willing to work with us when he can’t be in the classroom.
Last week, we forgot to thank Violet, Shoshanna and Elliott for taking Tyler to Boomers and dinner. He had such a great time and we really appreciate you thinking of him!
Thanks,
Tony and Lynne
Sorry! It has been an interesting and educational couple of weeks since our last update and we are just getting around to catching up. We started Round 2 of chemotherapy on Friday, 8/2, and went straight to our room since all of the paperwork and labs had been completed on Thursday. Travis was feeling pretty good and watched some movies to help pass the time. Tyler was supposed to go to the beach with Zachary and Bessie but he was not feeling well so he stayed at home to rest and hang out with Cisco. After work Tony came down to have dinner and stay for a few hours. At bed time, Tony left to go home around 10pm. Overall, it was a good first day!
Saturday started out ok but later in the afternoon, some nausea set in. We were able to control the nausea but the down side is that medicines combined (Ativan and Phenergan) make him feel very sedated so he sleeps a lot. Tyler was supposed to go down with Tony but we felt it was best if he stayed home since he was not feeling 100% the day before so he and Cisco hung out all day.
On Sunday, Lynne and Tyler went to church and came down around lunch time. The nausea was there most of the day and it really keeps Travis from wanting to eat or drink anything. So, we let the IV fluids do their thing and we were hoping he would be feeling well enough to go home on Monday.
Monday – Nausea was calming down some but Travis just did not feel like eating or drinking much so they decided to keep him on IV fluids and medicines. It was a little disappointing to find out we were not going home but everyone said that it did not make sense to rush going home only to have to turn back around and be readmitted. So, we accepted the facts and set our new goal of going home on Tuesday.
On Tuesday, we were given the green light even though Travis was not eating much and drinking a little water. Lynne asked the doctor about prescribing and appetite stimulant and they gave us Marinol (aka medical marijuana) to help with eating and nausea. Several people asked: “does he have to smoke it?” Funny! But the answer is NO since it is in the pill form. So, we went home a little after lunch time. Travis was excited to be home and he seemed to be doing ok. But then on Wednesday, he was not feeling too well and by the evening, everything was aching and his jaw was hurting so we gave him some Hycet so he could get some sleep.
On Thursday, one of the nurses called to check and see how things were going and they recommended that we bring him in to have his lab work checked. As it turned out, his electrolytes were all out of whack with his Potassium, Magnesium, Sodium and Phosphorus all very low. So they went ahead and admitted us so that we could run IV fluids. That was not exactly what we wanted to hear but at least that would help explain things and we were in the best place to get his levels straightened out.
After running the fluids with additives (Potassium) and taking supplements (Potassium/Sodium, Magnesium) over night, on Friday we could tell Travis was starting to bounce back and feel better. Even though his electrolytes were still low, they were slowly starting to climb up. The thing is, when your Potassium is low, apparently it can affect your heart rhythm so they kept him on the monitors. The good thing was that with all these things he had to take, Travis learned how to swallow pills with the help of the nurses and started taking pills Friday night. Big step! This made medicine time much easier, especially since some of those liquids taste horrible! This was also Day 8 of the chemotherapy cycle but since they did not want to complicate things more, they decided to hold off on the Vincristine boost until the next day.
By Saturday, even though some of his levels were still low, Travis was really starting to feel good and made it out to the play area about 5 times with one of the times being out there more than an hour. It was great to get outside and feel the warmth of the sunshine. By this time, his Potassium had crept back up but we needed it to be stable over a period of time before they would let us think about going home. So, we were in for another night! In the evening, we did get the Vincristine boost and the Blood counts (ANC, Hemoglobin, etc) were starting to drop as expected since this was in our 7-10 day window where the counts get the lowest. The nurse mentioned that if the Hemoglobin continued to drop below 7.5, we would need to do a blood transfusion which was something new. After dinner, we watched a “Duck Dynasty” marathon on A&E. Those people are Funny!
On Sunday, the potassium level stayed level consistently and we were able to take off the heart and respiration monitor which was half way to freedom. Travis was really feeling good and excited about the possibility of going home. But, after speaking with the doctor, it was too late to get the Potassium and Magnesium prescription from the pharmacy. Also, since the Hemoglobin was continuing to drop, we were going to need to come back on Tuesday for a blood transfusion. So, the doctor recommended that since we had to stay Sunday night anyway, we could just go ahead and do the blood transfusion so that we did not need to come back on Tuesday. Travis was a little nervous since this was something new but everything went smoothly over the 4 hour process. He did not feel a thing and there were no reactions. We ended up watching a 6 hour marathon of “Jungle Gold” on the Discovery Channel. Crazy stuff! Travis was able to unhook all of his connections (IV, Monitor, etc) and we had a good night of sleep.
Monday was a busy morning of waiting for nurses, doctors, medicines, etc before we could head home. By noon, everything was done except our new prescriptions ordered so Tony had to leave for work. On the way home, Lynne went to pick up the prescriptions at our local pharmacy but it turned out they were out of stock even though the computer said they had it. After hours of calling the hospital and calling around to find them, Lynne and Travis headed back down to the hospital to pick them up. What a pain! When you are on hospital time, you ask yourself: where did the day go? Doesn’t matter…Travis made it home!
Even with our crazy schedule over the last 2 weeks with the soccer tournament and exploring all of this new territory, we made it through! Since the chemotherapy regime was the same as Round 1 with Cisplatin/Vincristine on Day 1, Cytoxan on Days 2 and 3, and Vincristine boost on Day 8, we thought we knew what to expect. But that just goes to show you, we never really know exactly how things will go with chemotherapy.
Love,
Tony and Lynne
Wow!!! It is impossible to know how or where to begin to describe what just happened this weekend. Our thoughts and emotions are all over the place which makes it hard to put our experience into words, not to mention the tears in our eyes make it hard to see the keyboard and screen. But, we will give it our best shot!
We participated in the American Cancer Society’s “Relay for Life” in Carlsbad this weekend. Back in early May, Our Faith and Works family decided to participate in the event in support of Travis and his battle with cancer. Keith and Beth were our team leaders and they really did an excellent job in coordinating all of the information and logistics for our team. We went out on Friday evening to set up our campsite on the field in the middle of the track at Valley Middle School. We saw so many familiar faces either from School at El Camino Creek/Oak Crest or from the YMCA Adventure Guides where we were part of the Falcon Nation-Running Fox Tribe or from Soccer at Carlsbad Wave or from Church at St. Elizabeth Seton. There was so much positive energy and words of encouragement, the boys wanted to go ahead and stay Friday night even though the event did not start until Saturday morning. But, we reluctantly went home to get some rest knowing that we were in for a long 24 hour period. We arrived on Saturday morning around 7:30am and set up the rest of our campsite and everyone was working to prepare the tables for the bake sale. All of our families prepared dozens of cookies, brownies or healthy snacks to sell while Keith and Beth prepared for strawberry shortcakes to be sold. Travis hand sowed 3-D Cancer Ribbons and Tyler made Duct Tape Wallets to sell. We had the whole spectrum and also ran a Bean Bag Toss game to help raise funds.
The overall event began with an Opening Ceremony where we were told that we would Laugh, Cry, Hug and form bonds that would last forever. Then we went into the relay portion of the event which began with a Survivor’s Lap where Travis and the other Cancer Survivors walked a lap while everyone else lined the track and cheered them on. Very powerful! About halfway through their lap, the survivors were joined by their family for the Caregivers Lap. One of Travis’ Neurosurgeons, Jaysen Sack, and his family came out and joined us for that part of the ceremony too which was very cool. Then we were off and walking. There were games, bake sales, tons of cool items for sale, a DJ with music, live bands, great food and just a total celebration to help raise money to fight cancer. We had many friends come throughout the day to walk and support Travis. The evening came and after dark, it was time for the Luminaria Ceremony and Remembrance Lap. We decorated bags and lined the track in remembrance of or in support of anyone who has had to fight the battle against cancer. We heard very emotional stories from people about their experiences or about their loved one and then set out to walk a quiet lap together remembering our loved ones. What a very moving experience! Throughout the night, we continued our laps and had various people walking. At around 11:30pm, we finally got Travis in his sleeping bag in the tent. He was so exhausted and his legs hurt so bad that Tony had to carry him up to the bathroom to brush his teeth before bed. He is a Warrior! Tyler ended up walking up until midnight and the Selinka family went to bed. Tony and Tyler were up a little before 5am to walk the 5-6am shift and then reveille was about 7am to get everyone going again. We had the Closing Ceremony where all the teams were recognized for their contributions. Our Faith and Works team was awarded the “Most Spirited Relay Team” and was recognized as one of several teams who had someone on the track continuously for the entire 24 hour relay. Travis was invited to receive our awards and to be recognized as such an inspiration. Then we ended the entire event with the Fight Back Lap. They even asked our team to be out in front to walk the final lap with Travis leading the entire group. Very emotional and hard to keep a dry eye! The entire event was very empowering to help us to continue to fight back against cancer.
All in all, there were 29 teams and more than 300 participants. The event raised over $75,600 for the American Cancer Society and Cancer Research with our Faith and Works team raising over $1700. Travis walked over 9 miles with everyone supporting him at one time or another. Tyler walked over 13 miles in between working as a Salesman at our team’s Bake Sale. Tony and Lynne walked at least that much as well with various friends and in between worrying if Travis could finish the lap he was on. We had some people from our team walk around 30 miles (go Yousko family!). And there was a team of 6-7 Marines (team Avengers) who all walked 35+ miles in their super hero costumes with one of them, Jay, who walked 50 miles. Wow! Travis the Warrior connected with Jay the Marine early on Saturday and Jay promised to give Travis his Nerf Bow and Arrow set at the end of the relay. In turn, Travis and Tyler gave Jay, Lauren and the rest of the Marines one of their handmade Cancer Ribbons and handmade Duct Tape Wallets. Pretty cool!
We want to thank our Faith and Works family for being there for us in so many ways, especially this weekend! Everyone was so committed to this event from baking goods to sell, to manning the Bake Sale, to Walking the track continuously, to sharing a smile, to sharing your love and to sharing your words of encouragement with all of us. You all truly Walk the Walk and we are so blessed to have you in our lives!
Our Faith and Works Family:
Keith, Beth and Jennie Castiglione
Phil and Suzy Lampe (and Nick and Ben too, even though they were on their retreat this weekend)
Phil, Tracey, Brooke, Blake, Michelle and Sean Spangenberg
Rich, Sundi, Spenser and Jensen Yousko
We also want to thank all of our special friends, or should we say “Extended Family,” who came out to support us throughout the weekend:
Bob and Jane Tetzlaff (honorary F&W members for the weekend and Bethlehem family)
Jessie and Esther Stocking (honorary F&W members for the weekend)
Dr. Jaysen Sack, Shilow and Angelina (one of Travis’ Neurosurgeons)
Shannon, Spenser, Reed and Collyn Garman (Bethlehem family)
Dominick, Kayley, Jaido and Jenny Diaz (soccer family)
Brian Gomez (soccer family)
KC, Kelsey, Michael and Jennifer Swyney (soccer family)
Christopher, Stephanie, Lori and Andy Gorzynski (soccer and church family)
Martine, Tiernan, Olivia Hussey (extended family)
Jodi Johnson, Jaycee Johnson, Courtney Drummond, Lauren Miszklevitz (soccer family)
Finally, we want to thank Dave Mills, Jodi and Keith Mann, the entire Relay for Life Committee and the American Cancer Society for putting on such a wonderful and life changing event. We walked! We laughed! We walked! We cried! We walked! We hugged! We walked! We ate! We walked! We slept (a little)! We walked some more! We had so much fun and we made or strengthened friendships and relationships that will last a lifetime! Needless to say, we are hooked!
www.RelayForLife.org/CarlsbadCA
It is hard to come across anyone who has not had cancer touch them in some way. Why Do We Walk? We walk for “Travis the Warrior” and so many others like him who have had to battle this terrible disease. So, we will: Celebrate! Remember! Fight Back!
We know words cannot express enough but Thank You all from the bottom of our hearts!
Carlsbad Relay for Life 2013 Video
Love,
Tony, Lynne, Tyler and Travis
As we mentioned back in early May, our Faith and Works group has arranged for all of us to participate in the American Cancer Society’s “Relay for Life” in Carlsbad. The idea is that we will participate in a 24 hour relay where our team will have someone, or multiple people, walking on the track continuously for the 24 hour period. The plan is that we will set up our campsite and stay from 9am on Saturday, 7/27, to 9am on Sunday, 7/28. Our team will be helping to raise money for the American Cancer Society and cancer research by having a Bake Sale and running a Carnival Game during the event and then through the Luminaries that will be lighted at the Luminary Ceremony on Saturday evening. It is going to be a lot of fun and a great way for all of us to pull together to support Travis and all of those battling or who have been touched by cancer in some way.
If you have some time and would like to stop by to walk some laps with us or just show your support for Travis, here are the details:
Valley Middle School
1645 Magnolia Ave
Carlsbad, CA
9AM on Saturday, 7/27 to 9AM on Sunday, 7/28
www.RelayForLife.org/CarlsbadCA
Thanks,
Tony, Lynne, Tyler and Travis
Travis had his blood work done yesterday and they confirmed that his counts are good. So, after two weeks of “quarantine” and laying low, he can go out again. Yeah! Although it has taken almost two weeks and he still has some stomach discomfort, we have a couple more weeks before we start round 2. At least at this point, Round 1 is Done!
Thanks,
Tony and Lynne
We brought Travis home last night and Cisco was happy to see him! He had a bit of a rough afternoon at the hospital with the nausea and a sore jaw. We are doing the best we can to keep the nausea under control as the chemo flushes out of his system. The sore jaw is something he experienced back in Houston during the first week of Proton Therapy and Chemo (Vincristine) where the salivary glands can be affected by both the radiation and the chemo. In this case, it looks like the Vincristine is the cause and we are trying to control his pain with Tylenol and/or Hycet. He did sleep good last night and we will do our best to keep him comfortable.
Thanks,
Tony and Lynne